It's okay to not be okay. Tell someone you're not okay, feeling blue, lonely, lost, overwhelmed, or struggling. Really. Don't give your problems permanence.
Everyone says: "If you need anything, don't hesitate, I'll be there for you". Many of us mean it. I refuse to waste my limited time here on earth with relationships of convenience. If you are my friend here it's because you matter to me. I don't look for perfect people, instead, I value honesty, integrity, loyalty, and accountability.
I've heard people say, "Nobody looks like I feel." Chuck Chamberlain's response was that's because you're comparing their armor to your raw meat. Find people you feel safe being vulnerable with and let them in. Don't get bit by the same dog twice.
I try to do what I can for people. Sometimes that's just listening or being a sounding board or offering a friendly verbal kick in the ass.
People tend to be a lot more fragile around the holidays. We have a controversial new president taking office in January and plenty of folks across the board are freaked out and afraid. Be there for people. Don't wait for people to ask for help or to wait too long, volunteer.
Try to call at least one friend a day that you don't talk to regularly. The life you help save may be your own.
May is Mental Illness Awareness Month, but we need people year round. Please check on your friends!
How are you really doing?
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#peopleneedpeople #suicide #help #reachout #handup
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